Sex Work Series Part 2 – Let’s Talk About SESTA/FOSTA

Hello Sensual Souls! This is Lady L here and today I have story number two of my sex worker series (here is part 1 in case you missed it: LadyL411Series). This is Carmen Sunderland’s brave and powerful story about how the recent passing of the SESTA/FOSTA law has affected her and so many other sex workers. So let me turn things over to my guest contributor for the month of…

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Luscious Lavender Lemonade

The other day I needed something thirst quenching but nothing was quite cutting it so I thought to myself let’s try some good old fashioned lemonade with a sensual twist, so I added some lavender to it and it turned out quite delicious and good plus it gave my lemonade a very pretty light purple hue. The addition of lavender’s heady and herbaceous perfume made it unique and special (please…

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Am I Enough?

My Friend Laura from the Beloved Ophelia Blog launched her “I Am Enough Project” on September 5th. She is devoting the entire month of September to this project. The whole topic of “am I enough/I am enough” is very real and relevant, so many of us women struggle with feelings of enough. Check out the project here: https://belovedophelia.com/am-i-enough/. I am also excited to say that I got to be a…

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Silence is not Consent & Other Sexual Predicaments

I decided to whip out this impromptu blog post right now, because of a meme that I saw on my friend’s social media page, I just knew that I had some crucial information to share with the world. On August 31st the world said good bye to The Queen of Soul Music, Aretha Franklin. Unfortunately there had to be a little bit of controversy at her televised funeral. Ariana Grande…

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I Have a Confession to Make – Part One of a Series About Sex Work

I have a confession to make… I am a sex worker however I am not a full service sex worker, which means that I am not a prostitute or an escort. I am an exotic dancer, I started dancing almost 2 years ago and at that time I was 48 years old. Yeah, I know I got a very late start in life, people ALWAYS ask how I got into…

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How to Make Delightfully Sensual Smudge Sticks

Smudge sticks have been used ritualistically for centuries to purify the air and bring positive energies into your living space. Collect an assortment of herbs and flowers that you know have not been sprayed with chemicals. For my smudge bundles I used sage, mint, lemon balm, rosemary, roses, marigolds, lavender and other various assortment of flowers from my yard. Materials: scissors twine/string herbs flowers Start off by pulling all of…

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YouTube Video #2 Introduction Video

I just launched my new YouTube Channel a few weeks ago. My first video was my trailer video now this next video is a brief introduction as to who I am and what my specialty is plus I have some tips to share on the video regarding mindset so please check it out, it is a short but sweet video: https://youtu.be/hVx_vn-s5ts x Elle aka Lady L

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Jealousy Series Part Two with Elle Le Blanc – Tips for Newbie’s in the Open Lifestyle

Jealousy Series Part Two with Elle Le Blanc – Tips for Newbie’s in the Open Lifestyle Tips for New People in the Open Lifestyle to Help Out with Jealousy at Clubs and Play Parties. Before I get to the tips I just want to get real here for a moment and to briefly touch base on what I personally have been through when it comes to jealousy…When I first got…

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Jealousy and Sexuality ~ A 2 Part Series with Alexandra DeMartini & Elle Le Blanc

So, today I am having Alexandra DeMartini back as a Guest Contributor on my blog and website to co-create a 2 part series on jealousy and sexuality with me (Alexandra will be covering part one and I will be covering part two next week). In case you do not know Alexandra you can read all about her here: http://ladyl411.com/guest-contributor-divine-feminine-alchemy-by-alexandra-demartini/ Now let’s get to part one of Jealousy and Sexuality by Alexandra…

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