Sexy Dance Party

I love hosting the Sexy Dance Party for Sex Positive Portland! My DJ friend and I had the idea to have a sex positive dance party, where he would be the DJ and I would be the host back in January 2018. There were so many twists and turns to trying to pull this event together that it actually did not launch until Sept. 2018 and it nearly did not…

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Sexy & Delicious Golden Milk

Not only is Golden Milk delicious it is also good for you and it’s sexy! It contains coconut milk and honey which are libido enhancers plus it is anti-inflammatory (from the coconut milk along with the combination of the turmeric and black pepper) and it is high in antioxidants too (from the turmeric and the coconut milk). It makes a wonderful addition to your evening ritual to wind down and…

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Looking for Me Too Story Submissions

I started my Me Too series in January, you can read the first post/story here: http://ladyl411.com/metoo-series-my-story/, this is my personal story.  Now I am in the process of collecting submissions for other people’s Me Too stories so please contact me via email if you would like to share your story: LadyL411inc@gmail.com. Thank you. x Lady L aka Elle

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10 week guide to reigniting passion with Guest Contributor John.

For this month I have a guest contributor by the name of John, he contacted me out of the blue from Australia, he told me that he loved my blog and wanted to be a guest contributor. This post is perfect timing because it is just in time with Valentines Day just around the corner, he is sharing with us his 10 Week Guide to reignite passion in your relationship,…

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New eBay Store!

I just opened my eBay store! If you are in need of a rich, decadent and non greasy hand & foot cream come over to my store and check out my Sensual Chocolate Mint Hand & Foot Creme: https://www.ebay.com/usr/ladyl411 Until next time! x Elle  

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MeToo Series – My Story

Trigger Warning: Forced Sex I have decided to do a MeToo series, this is something I have been thinking about doing for a while now however making the decision to tell my MeToo story has not been an easy one, I have been going around in circles about whether or not I should post it but the universe has been coming through loud and clear over and over with the…

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Love Altar

For the next couple of months I have a sensual self care theme going on and this post is a continuation of this theme (last month I had a video and this month I have blog post instead). For my own personal sensual self care I created a love altar. I love building altars it is one of my favorite things. Throughout my lifetime I have had money altars, love…

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Home Remedies – Honey, Ginger & Lemon Cough Syrup

Home Remedies – Honey, Ginger & Lemon Cough Syrup I ended up ringing in the New Year with a cold and a cough so I whipped up some cough syrup which is not only delicious it is highly effective plus it’s packed with vitamin C from the lemon, honey is naturally anti bacterial and ginger is good for pain relief.  It is way better than the stuff you get from…

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Breast Massage for Sensual Self Care

Several months ago I started incorporating sensual and sexual self care practices into my routine and this has been life changing in helping me to create balance and clarity in all areas of my life. I have decided to devote the next few months to making videos and blog posts about this subject. Here is my first video where I talk about the benefits of a daily breast massage for…

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My BigCartel Store is Now Open

I just opened up an online store over at BigCartel! For the moment I am selling my Sensual Chocolate Mint Hand & Foot Creme’ and my Herbal Smudge Sticks and I will be offering tarot readings soon too! Please come and take a look also keep my store in mind for your Christmas shopping: https://thealchemistofsensuality.bigcartel.com/  

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