Luscious Lavender Lemonade

The other day I needed something thirst quenching but nothing was quite cutting it so I thought to myself let’s try some good old fashioned lemonade with a sensual twist, so I added some lavender to it and it turned out quite delicious and good plus it gave my lemonade a very pretty light purple hue. The addition of lavender’s heady and herbaceous perfume made it unique and special (please…

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Am I Enough?

My Friend Laura from the Beloved Ophelia Blog launched her “I Am Enough Project” on September 5th. She is devoting the entire month of September to this project. The whole topic of “am I enough/I am enough” is very real and relevant, so many of us women struggle with feelings of enough. Check out the project here: https://belovedophelia.com/am-i-enough/. I am also excited to say that I got to be a…

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Silence is not Consent & Other Sexual Predicaments

I decided to whip out this impromptu blog post right now, because of a meme that I saw on my friend’s social media page, I just knew that I had some crucial information to share with the world. On August 31st the world said good bye to The Queen of Soul Music, Aretha Franklin. Unfortunately there had to be a little bit of controversy at her televised funeral. Ariana Grande…

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I Have a Confession to Make – Part One of a Series About Sex Work

I have a confession to make… I am a sex worker however I am not a full service sex worker, which means that I am not a prostitute or an escort. I am an exotic dancer, I started dancing almost 2 years ago and at that time I was 48 years old. Yeah, I know I got a very late start in life, people ALWAYS ask how I got into…

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